This seems to be the bit that scares first-time vulvas-lovers the most. Your virgin voyage to the Sapphic Isles needn't come without a personalised map — or, you know, a super-hot Sat Nav with the voice of Marilyn Monroe, if you're lucky. The good news is that although tips and tricks are handy, sex is still largely intuitive whatever genders or bodies it's between.
As ever, remember that some people don't like being penetrated — never assume anything. If that's you or your partner, that's cool. What face sitting is and why people like it.
Wiggle your finger s on it and see what happens Don't be put off if you have to go through a bit of trial and error with a new partner. For a simple starter, try it with one of you lying down and the other straddling them, placing one another's thigh in one another's crotch.
Does this video show Meghan Markle's baby kicking? I know you're thinking,"How on earth will I know what to do? I will never forget the first time I had a pair of boobs that weren't my own to play with.